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Mysti Cobb-Parker • March 7, 2025

Integrity in Wellness: Staying True to My Values in a Profit-Driven Industry

Wellness has always been more than just a profession for me—it’s a calling, a purpose, and a way of life. It’s the space where I feel I’ve made my most genuine contributions to society, helping people reconnect with themselves, their health, and their overall well-being.

There are moments when I feel profoundly grateful to have discovered practices that speak to my soul—practices that have not only transformed my own life but have allowed me to guide others toward deeper self-awareness and healing. The ability to help someone find clarity, regain confidence in their body, or simply slow down and breathe is an honor that I don’t take lightly.

But my journey in the wellness industry hasn’t been without challenges.



When Wellness Becomes a Business First, and a Practice Second

It has been disheartening to step into spaces that promote the idea of wellness, only to realize that their true focus is on profit rather than transformation. So many programs, studios, and brands prioritize selling an image rather than fostering real change.

We see it everywhere—quick-fix programs that promise unrealistic results, luxury retreats that cater only to an exclusive few, and wellness trends that cycle in and out like fast fashion. The industry often tells people that their well-being is something they must buy rather than cultivate from within. And that’s where I draw the line.


Wellness should be about empowerment, not dependency. It should be about giving people the tools to connect with themselves and take ownership of their health—physically, mentally, and emotionally. It shouldn’t be a commodity that is only available to those who can afford an expensive price tag.

That’s why my approach has always been different.


Empowering People to Own Their Wellness Journey

For me, wellness has never been about dictating what people should do. It’s about engaging people in their own wellness journey. True well-being isn’t about following a strict set of rules—it’s about discovering what works for you, learning how to listen to your body, and cultivating habits that align with your values and lifestyle.


I have always embraced my role as a coach, mentor, and guide—not as someone who has all the answers but as someone who can provide knowledge, inspiration, and support.


My philosophy is built on three core principles:

  1. Accountability: Your health, happiness, and healing are in your hands. I can offer tools and guidance, but ultimately, you are the one who must take action.
  2. Education: Knowledge is power. When people understand how their body, mind, and emotions work together, they can make more informed choices about their well-being.
  3. Connection: True wellness doesn’t happen in isolation. It comes from building a supportive community, forming deep connections with ourselves and others, and creating balance in all areas of life.

Integrity as the Foundation


At the core of everything I do is integrity. I believe in authenticity, transparency, and staying true to my values—no matter what the industry trends may be.

I don’t need to be the most popular. I don’t need to conform to what’s mainstream if it doesn’t align with my principles. I don’t need to sell an illusion to make a living.

I just need to be myself.

And in doing so, I attract the right people—those who are tired of superficial wellness trends, who are ready for real transformation, and who want to do the work to create lasting change in their lives.

Because at the end of the day, true wellness isn’t about fitting into someone else’s mold. It’s about learning to show up for yourself, embracing who you are, and living in alignment with your own truth.

And that starts with integrity.

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